#4 by JourneyMan Valhalla - 9/5/2003 5:43:50 AM I sincerely hope marriage is a good thingAS MY DAUGHTER GETS MARRIED TOMORROW !

Congradulations! Many happy years to your daughter.

At last your right WOM. And to add to it I guess it has to also do with how the 2 work... (excuse me I want to say a different word but can't think of one) on the relationship and keep it fresh.


I think the marraige rate is 50/50 now because many go in with wierd expectations. It is about being friends with your mate not just lovers.

(But don't go out with a best friend for years and you decide to make your girlfriend... oh lawd that is a mistake)

I still miss my friend.

I still don't know... how do you know when the time is right?

Then you have this big bash and tell everyone.

It be nice if you didn't and later if it totally flopped you could just sneak away.



I think that is one of the reasons why its a big bash! Plus the fact you made this promise in front of everybody and for those who are religist God also.

It be easier to hide the whole thing and break up anytime you want, but I guess that is the point.

Joe, you just know.

I lived with mine for 20+ years before we married almost 9 yrs ago. We did it for the tax break too

Valhalla


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#19 by Doomgaze - 9/5/2003 11:55:11 AM I think marriage is a commitment.so why do you need a ring and a peice of paper and a ceremony and whatnot to prove the commitment?

You don't

Confused here 20 + 9 ? You can't be that old. At least you don't look that old - by about 20 years+

/me thinks China needs to exaggerate a little less...

China met him when she was 4... that makes her 38 years old

I'm almost 44, fuzzy

Did I just say that?

Well, which is it? 44 or fuzzy?

Dump the old man - I'm free...

heh fuzzy

here we are in 1980

haha I was told I look like a such a bitch.... I was trying to look sexy
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Wow, 1980 - I had hair then too...

Is there such a thing as a good age for this marrage thing. By the way I was 5 in 1980

In 1980 I'd got over the 'dropout' thing. cut my hair, and thought about getting a job...

I've been looking to settle down for some time now and I'm starting to feel rushed. I think at 27 it's about time I guess.





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ah, 1980? I htink I remember 1980, hmmm...

Oh I was in the Air Force, all my hiar had been cut off

Though it had been half way to my butt before basic.

heh that pic is about 4 years after David was in the Army


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Just in case anyone's interested.
This is my daughter on a trial run for hair and make-up
http://www.valhalla-designs.co.uk/mel.htm

She is so cute!!

Does the guy who marries the girl always sweat before the date? How's your future sone in law doing Valhalla?

He is a confident type of guy normally but is getting the jitters a bit

Great picture China!

you too Valhalla, congratulations

In a couple months my wife and I will celebrate our 30th anniversary. It is possible to have a happy life together.

Many congratulations David.
Great to hear