I enjoy gently choking my girl while pulling on her hair as she spears her fingers into my back (not drawing too much blood though). all in all a great experience!
Something about women having men taking control 
call it rape, but shes a freak about this sort of thing.
must be all those thousands of years of "kill husband, fuck wife, pillage the village" fun that all those marauders did back in them good ol days.
I think women like it to be honest.