In which of the many non-united European states?
Any, to be honest. Any city that has more than 1000 year of history
So please, prove to us how being in a European city (I am in Dublin right now)
Lucky you! Ireland! The homeland of my fore-fore-father!
Anyway. You probably noticed a major difference between Dublin and, let's say, Los Angeles. Or New York. Or Houston. Or pretty much any city of the United States (save the very original colonies).
Dublin has to build it's modernity by adapting what it had and what has already been built in the past 1000 years. Their road system isn't as efficient as the U.S.'s. Their infrastructure are also less effeciently designed. The whole paradigm behind the road's layout of Ireland hasn't been created while thinking of cars, but of horses and carts.
You end up with a city that has a lot of charm (old montreal is a lot like that, and I am sure quite a few ancient parts of some eastern U.S. cities are too), but that will never reach it's full potential except if you destroy part of what was and you redesign everything in a more efficient way.
I cannot imagine if the whole of Montreal had been designed with the same mentality than the Old Montreal.
But Paris has. London has. Luckily for everybody, they accepted to destroy many elements to allow for some modernity, but many of the layouts of the city are puzzling as hell.
Well, the USA/Europe comparison is kinda the same. You cannot compare Europe to the USA for the same reason you cannot compare European to American cities, as one was built and designed from scratch, with the Grand Scheme in mind, while the other has been the result of a patch-up work that lasted from millenia.
The country of the USA has been designed to be an efficient way of running a Federation of independant states while being independant of the Europeans. You did not had 2000 years of violent backstory, you were all in this together. It worked well, because you "built anew". To compare European/American efficiency, you'd have pretty much to destroy all the societies of Europe and make them build anew, and see how they fare.
The European Union, on the other way, was created to prevent a further bloody conflict (I am taking a big leap here, as I consider the EU to have started up at the first pan-european economic treaty.. which has been created in... err.. the 50s?). It hasn't been created to provide strenght of organisation structure, but simply to strenghten the ties between the various nations composing the Union.
A country built from scratch, that has created it's own culture, that has always existed in post-renaissance modernity.. well.. it's kinda special, don't you think?
The same way, technically, Dubai was supposed to be more "grandiose" than any US city. Since everything has been built with cars in mind (it worked too well). But then, the leaders of that city who took many decisions were kind of idiots. (there is something to be said about our western organisational culture!!
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