Now, time for me to throw my first piece of advice about Mishayla into the circle. I'm not going to say "walk away" or "go for it," I'm going to say "it's your life." It isn't run by a bunch of internet people, it's run by you. Ask yourself the questions. Decide whether it will make you truly happy if you're with Mishayla, and analyse whether or not you are truly happy with the current situation. And look at it this way, does it make you happy to see her happy, with Hannah.
Ultimately, you live life for yourself. Even those who, say, campaign for the rights of others at a great personal risk are doing it because it makes them feel happy because those they are helping will be happy. So that's my advice. Live for yourself.
Snipe, do you even know how MANY times I've said this to Xer07? He never listened to me, always asking for advice here, in these forums, from people who dont even know his last name.
So yeah, he will not listen to you, he'll just keep letting others decide for himself, or at least affect his decisions in a way.
How dare you, all of you, tell me to get over it and walk away.
It was you people who told me to make a move, who told me I was "in love" who told me we were perfect, and now... I'm supposed to just... walk away?
Xer07 WTF!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE FUCK
Didnt I explain myself to you? You did bother to read my post way back, didnt you?
I suppose you didnt. Well, http://forums.demigodthegame.com/376103/page/174/#replies
Just in case you are lazy to click on my link,
Reply #4350 June 3, 2010 6:11:53 AM
It does kinda bug me that earlier everyone was all "Ooh, Xer0, you HAVE to ask her out, you have to tell her how you feel! You're totally in love with this girl! Why won't you make a move?!?" but now that the whole thing has come crashing down, everyone's telling me to just suck it up and move along.
Xer0 \^/
Yes Xer07. It might be kinda difficult for you to understand it, but here's how I thought of the whole thing:
I dont know about the others, but I really thought that Mishayla would reject you (sorry, but thats what I thought), and then you would have no other choice but to move on.
Now, initially I started saying (altough I didnt get much of your attention), that you should probably try to let her go and move on. But then I realized that you would NOT do that, no matter what I said, so, the best way to do it, was to actually come crashing down. So....I went along, because at the slight chance that she wouldnt reject you, then you'd be a winner, but if I was correct, then you would be able to finally move on. So it was a WIN-WIN anyway.
Also, I dont claim that I am always right and wise, and that my advice is awesome. Since you ask for advice from people who dont even know you personally, and you TAKE that advice, then that means you accept the possibility that they might be wrong.
Moreover, I remember saying to you many many times (please dont make me dig up these ancient posts), that you shouldnt ask for advice from ANYONE, especially from people online, who dont even know your last name. I remember saying to you many times, trying to make you understand, that only YOU are the best person to decide whats best for you - you and only you.
I didnt say these things so bluntly, but in a nicer way, but you get the point.
And it seems I was wrong about 1 thing though, right? Even though you did get rejected (kinda), you still wanna be around her to protect her..... 
Oh well, I guess its your choice, and a very noble one, I might say.
Because you see, its all about choice. If you want to be miserable, but keep your crush safe and happy, then gotta do what you gotta do. But if you wanna make yourself happy, put yourself above other people, then you know what to do.
Its all in your head Xer07.....
And let me add to this post the following:
Also, Twilight_Storm asked me to convince you to "go for it", because he said he was sure you two could be together, and that Mishayla would not reject you.
I played along, considering the outcome would be the same anyway.
But WHY THE HELL, didnt you even listen to me, that YOU are the only person who can decide whats best for you? Was it like I was talking to a wall? I guess so.
The most important and correct advice of all, was this. But you just ignored it.
I am not trying to offend you here, or attack you personally. It just really bugs me that you get pissed off to people that gave you advice because YOU ASKED them to. You asked for advice in a forum thread, from people who dont even know you, KNOWING that this advice could be bullshit, and when it is proved that it was bullshit, you get mad at them. This is insanely irrational.
Well, given that that is the case, I WILL walk away. From you people. All I'm doing is wasing my time, and yours on here, because we know what the outcome will be.
Well, thats your choice, and if you do really walk away, I respect it, because at least thats your decision (I hope).
You are definitely NOT wasting my time, altough I can only speak for myself, but if you feel you are wasting your time, then thats fine.
The outcome? Hmm....I didnt catch that.
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