by the fk'n CD and rip it
Yes, buy the cd, at almost twice the price of the digital version. You still have to take precautions with the cd, for example, putting it inside a plastic sleeve so that it doesn't scratch, keeping track of it, etc.
Backing up your purchases is similar to taking care not to scratch the cd, both are necessary precautions, so that you don't lose your music.
What's up with the DRM BULLSHIT??? I paid for the downloaded song I'll do with it what I want, including transferring it to whatever device I want in whatever manner I want.
This is also possible with iTunes.
No one is forcing anyone to buy through iTunes... there are other services online that allow you to purchase digital music, audiobooks, movies, etc. and they come in the normal windows format. This allows someone to copy it to their iTunes, while still having a version that isn't iTunes dependent.
Heaven forbid someone thinks outside the box, right?