They seem like one is bigger than the other then!
 Well of course, they belong to two different people...
 
Anyway, had another crash, seems to be when I fail to connect to someone. Not sure if this is what you found a fix for or not.
 
 
EXCEPTION_ACCESS_VIOLATION (0xc0000005) at address 0x10060560
    attempted to read memory at 0x244c8b78
Program : C:\Program Files\Stardock Games\Demigod\bin\Demigod.exe
Cmd line arguments : 
Callstack:
    MemManager::ValidPointer + 27120 bytes ((Unknown)(0) + 0 bytes)
Last 100 lines of log...
A full record of the log is stored in the Demigodlog.txt file
info:       StartingLevel="One",
info:       StartingWarRank="1",
info:       Timeouts="0",
info:       TowerStrength="High",
info:       Victory="structuredefense",
info:       WarScoreIncome="Normal",
info:       achievements="true"
info:     }
info:   },
info:   TotalPlayerCount=5,
info:   Version="MAIN.1.00.0108",
info:   dwGameID=337157,
info:   dwHostPlayerID=10812
info: }
info: CVP_GameData:
      szGameName: (DK) Not Rec! Gameplay video High Quality
      szHostPlayerName: Multianna
      szHostIPAddress: 87.57.48.57
      szPassword: 
      szMapName: Mandala
      szGameSpecificXML (size): 3616
      szGameGUID: 7eba71d4-a4a4-48d5-9257-e3e94a0449b3
      szGameToken: 
      szStartTime: 0001-01-01T00:00:00
      szLastNotificationTime: 2009-05-02T14:53:32.063
      szGameVersion: 
      dwHostPlayerID: 10812
      dwHostPort: 0
      dwMinPlayers: 1
      dwMaxPlayers: 10
      dwGameTypeID: 5
      dwGameMapID: 52
      dwNumPlayers: 6
      dwGameID: 337157
      bRanked: 0
      bPrivate: 0
      dwHostTeamID: 0
      dwHostEntityID: 0
      dwWinningTeamID: 0
info: Adding name/ID mapping:[Connatic:26995]
info: >>>Entering CVPInterface::GetUserPlayerData()
info: >>>Exiting CVPInterface::GetUserPlayerData()
info: >>>Entering CVPGetPlayerAchievementsByID for 26995
info: <<<Exiting CVPGetPlayerAchievementsByID
info: JoinGame. GameID[337157], Password[]
info: >>>Entering CVPInterface::JoinGame()
info: >>>Exiting CVPInterface::JoinGame()
info: >>>Entering CVPInterface::GetGameData()
info: >>>Exiting CVPInterface::GetGameData()
info: Adding name/ID mapping:[Connatic:26995]
info: System: Connecting to game host...
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 10812[87.57.48.57:64601]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from Multianna[10812]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 14227[75.69.38.68:6087]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from xXAequitasXx[14227]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 21723[83.249.224.96:1300]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from krellovichz[21723]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 23116[69.124.191.216:1243]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 36855[86.142.249.73:64081]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from csweatherston[36855]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 39400[99.29.99.211:1068]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from acaridi[39400]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 23116[69.124.191.216:1243]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 23116[69.124.191.216:1243]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 23116[69.124.191.216:1243]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 23116[69.124.191.216:1243]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnIsConnected
info: Impulse asked if we are connected to 39400[99.29.99.211:1068]. We are not
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnAttemptNATConnect
info: Nat connection requested from acaridi[39400]
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnNATFailed
info: ImplCVPInterface::OnPlayerDataUpdated
info: MUSIC : Activating cue [Main_Menu]
info: >>>Entering CVPInterface::QuitGame()
info: CVP::HandlePlayerDataUpdated